The terrible words heard, “You have cancer!” This is your new, overwhelming reality. After the first inevitable fear – after the first round of questions and their perplexing answers – the immediate reaction is always, “What’s going to happen now?”
Understandably their minds are full of thoughts other than themselves, especially of their loved ones. I know mine was. And I’ve learned that for most men the first question is, “What’s going to happen to my family?”